Lets talk SEX
Did you get the sex talk from your parents?
You know, the story about the birds and the bees or how you were mysteriously delivered to you parents doorstep or any other story parents used to explain sex and how we came into the world?
Well I never got the “sex talk” or the talk about your ‘aunt flow’ that comes to visit every month until it doesn’t talk – these were things I had to figure out on my own. I remember the first time we had the sex talk in school, I was in seventh grade and it was a very awkward subject indeed. By ninth grade I had everything figured out or so I thought. What I wasn’t sure about Sex and the City came to the rescue during the latter parts of high school into college. But im happy sex education is now widely discussed and promoted.
But, back on the topic of sex.
Sex is one topic men and women can’t seem to see eye to eye with but, it is a very important aspect of every relationship – even more than we would dare to admit.
Lets face facts, your partner could be very romantic, loving and attentive but you cannot ignore the fact that they have a body that has needs to be taken care of and so do you.
Now I know what you are thinking, I’m only saying sex in a relationship is very important because I fall in the under forty age bracket. The truth is the response evoked from asking “How Important Is Sex?” will be based on a variety of factors – age, gender, your relationship status (single, married, separated, divorced, the partner on the side…), your sex life currently (active or deprived)…etc.
My stats – I’m 28, a woman, single and im not having sex, emotions are very important to me BUT I still say sex is very important in a relationship.
So here are some reasons you should go have sex with your partner and why it is important…..
– sex is an emotional process
– sex is a stress relief
– you will sleep better
– it creates a glow and healthier skin (ladies you will be happy you did)
– it keeps our hormones balanced
– it targets our muscles and you can lose weight (based on frequency
and activity of course you can burn calories)
– it reduces pain (don’t believe me? have sex when next you have
a headache…you will be amazed)
– it makes you want sex more (so if you are going through a dry period, hop back on board and the frequency will pick up)
– it makes you HAPPY (hormones baby, hormones)
So there are more benefits to sex than just pleasing you or your partner.
Just remember to always practice safe sex EVERY TIME.
What do you think?
“How Important Is Sex?”
-LizzieJ